Where to stay in LGBTQ+ Ireland: Castles, domes and luxury retreats
| 03/17/25
Experience the beauty, history, and culture of Ireland in luxury at these four amazing Emerald Isle hotels.
Aerial view of Sheen Falls Lodge in County Kerry, Ireland - Ireland has become one of the most LGBTQ+ welcoming destinations in the world
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While no one books a flight to Ireland specifically for the weather, those who visit know that when the sun does shine, there’s nowhere on Earth quite like it. With its rolling green hills, dramatic coastlines, centuries-old castles, and what feels like an endless supply of rainbows, Ireland has long captured the imagination of travelers. For some, the allure comes from the silver screen—whether it’s Jim Sheridan’s 1990 drama The Field, the musical romance Once, the Saoirse Ronan-led drama Brooklyn, or even last year's Netflix fantasy romcom Irish Wish, starring Lindsay Lohan. Others feel a deeper pull, wanting to trace their heritage back to the island their ancestors once left behind.
According to a new MyBaggage study—a company specializing in worldwide luggage shipping—Ireland is now the third most sought-after destination for Americans looking to relocate abroad, following Canada and Australia and ranking as the top European nation on the list. And it’s not just about nostalgia; a recent Travel and Tour World report also named Ireland one of the “safest and most peaceful” destinations to visit in 2025, adding to its appeal. Who wouldn't want a peaceful respite in these never-ending, historically unprecedented times?
Aerial view of Lough Eske Castle - In 2015, Ireland made history as the first country to legalize same-sex marriage by popular vote
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Beyond its safety and natural beauty, Ireland has also become one of the most LGBTQ+ welcoming destinations in the world. As the first country to legalize same-sex marriage by popular vote, it has embraced inclusivity with open arms. From its vibrant queer scene to its warm and welcoming culture, Ireland is a place where LGBTQ+ travelers can feel right at home. Rosie O’Donnell, a recent transplant to Ireland, echoed this sentiment, calling the country "pretty wonderful" in a recent TikTok video. “The people are so loving and so kind, so welcoming…”
While moving abroad isn’t as simple as packing a bag, visiting is—and these four extraordinary stays make the trip well worth it. From a castle steeped in history to a sleek five-star hotel in Dublin, a bubble dome under the stars, and a scenic lodge along the rugged Ring of Kerry, each offers a unique way to experience Ireland in style. Add in indulgent spa treatments that are worth the flight alone, and you've got four unforgettable getaways that capture the magic of the Emerald Isle—rain or shine.
The Merrion – County Dublin
A Junior Suite in The Main House of The Merrion Hotel in County Dublin
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Tucked into Dublin’s Southside Georgian neighborhood, The Merrion isn’t just a five-star hotel—it’s Irish hospitality at its finest. A meticulous restoration of four 18th-century townhouses, it blends historic grandeur with modern indulgence. As a member of The Leading Hotels of the World, The Merrion is known for its refined elegance and impeccable service. The 123 rooms and 19 suites exude effortless luxury, with thoughtful touches like Asprey toiletries, in-room safes, decorative fireplaces in select rooms, and even laptops available on request. The oversized, one-size-fits-all robes are so incredibly plush that you won’t want to take them off—luckily, strolling down to the spa wrapped in one is entirely acceptable.
The service here is as polished as the crystal glasses at No. 23, and the intimate cocktail bar is tucked downstairs. Michelin-starred dining at Restaurant Patrick Guilbaud sets the culinary bar high, but The Garden Room offers a more relaxed take on contemporary Irish cuisine, whether you’re indulging in the breakfast buffet or unwinding over afternoon tea.
The Merrion – County Dublin
The pool at The Merrion Spa & Health Club in County Dublin
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The Merrion Spa & Health Club is a destination in its own right. The serene 60-foot infinity pool, framed by classical columns, feels like a hidden sanctuary beneath the city streets. The spa menu is equally impressive, featuring Biologique Recherche and ESPA treatments designed for deep relaxation and visible results. Among them, the Men’s Rebel facial stands out—55 minutes of targeted skincare to refresh tired complexions and smooth fine lines. It’s perfect whether you want to look camera-ready at the start of your trip or return home glowing. Other standout treatments include the Seconde Peau facial, a cutting-edge alternative to fillers, and the Merrion Rest and Restore, which pairs a hot stone massage with a scalp treatment and a salon-perfect blow-dry or haircut. Thoughtful details like a swimwear dryer in the beautifully appointed changing rooms and an inviting relaxation suite ensure every moment feels lavish.
Beyond the onsite indulgences, The Merrion is ideally positioned for exploring the capital city’s best attractions. St. Stephen’s Green, a lush park with historic statues and tranquil walking paths, is just around the corner. Grafton Street, the city’s famed shopping street, has long been a stage for legendary buskers—Bono, Ed Sheeran, and one of my favorite Irish bands, Kodaline, have all performed there. And when the day winds down, the city’s top queer nightlife spots – The George, Pennylane, and PantiBar – are just a short taxi or stroll away. Renowned yet unpretentious, The Merrion nails the balance between luxury and comfort.
Sheen Falls Lodge – County Kerry
Sheen Falls Lodge in County Kerry is one of the first hotels in the world to receive Two Michelin Keys.
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Sheen Falls Lodge offers an effortlessly enchanting escape on the edge of Kenmare Bay, blending understated luxury with the rugged charm of the Irish countryside. Surrounded by 300 acres of private woodland, the Lodge sits near two of Ireland’s most scenic drives—the Ring of Kerry and the Beara Peninsula—making it a perfect base for exploring the untamed beauty of the southwest.
Accommodations range from elegantly appointed rooms to sprawling suites with private terraces overlooking the cascading Sheen Falls waterfall. The Falls Master Suite, at 1,350 square feet, stands out for its spacious layout, picturesque views, and fully functioning log fireplace, perfect for curling up with a good book. The Oscars Suite, with its own expansive terrace, invites guests to unwind with a glass of Champagne or a morning cup of tea while taking in the scenery. For larger groups seeking the best of hotel living with a cottage-core aesthetic, the estate’s cottages and villas offer private sanctuaries within the grounds. A short cycle or drive leads to Kenmare, a town brimming with traditional Irish pubs, artisanal shops, and a welcoming atmosphere.
Dining at The Falls Restaurant is a particular highlight. With an emphasis on locally sourced ingredients, the kitchen celebrates Kerry’s finest farmers and artisans. A pianist plays most evenings, setting a tasteful yet relaxed tone. The restaurant also offers a dedicated plant-based menu, a welcome touch in a region famous for its dairy heritage. For a more casual setting, The Stables Brasserie provides a laid-back alternative, serving lighter fare, such as burgers, pizza, and pasta.
Sheen Falls Lodge – County Kerry
Easanna Spa’s indoor pool at Sheen Falls Lodge in County Kerry
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At Easanna Spa (Easanna is the Irish word for waterfalls), the connection to nature is undeniable. Their Connect Full Body Massage uses wave-like techniques to enhance circulation and ease muscle tension while uplifting grapefruit and balancing ylang-ylang oils leave you refreshed. The spa also offers shared experience treatments and specialized treatments for guests living with or recovering from cancer. Additional spa amenities include the uniquely designed heated pool, plus a sauna, steam room, jacuzzi, and relaxation suite.
For those seeking adventure, the estate offers archery, axe-throwing, golf, and scenic woodland walks, ensuring endless ways to explore. But at its heart, Sheen Falls Lodge is about escapism—whether that means curling up by the fire, listening to the rush of the waterfalls, or simply breathing in the scent of oak and beech trees. From the moment you arrive and step out of your car, the fresh, earthy aromas envelop you—a sensory experience proven to reduce stress and elevate mood, setting the tone for this one-of-a-kind retreat.
Lough Eske Castle – County Donegal
The storied past and striking architecture of Lough Eske Castle in County Donegal offer a glimpse into Ireland’s rich heritage
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Lough Eske Castle comes into view at the end of a long, winding driveway, its historic facade making a great impression before guests even arrive. A restored 17th-century castle, the property carries centuries of history within its walls, from its origins as the O'Donnell clan's stronghold to its later transformation into an Edwardian estate.
This five-star Castle, built at the foot of the Bluestack Mountains, is an aesthete's dream – both architecturally and in its carefully curated collection of paintings. Its interiors celebrate Ireland's creative legacy, blending period details with modern refinement. Despite its grandeur, the castle maintains Donegal's welcoming and down-to-earth spirit, making it a luxurious yet unpretentious escape. Unsurprisingly, Sarah Jessica Parker and her family – frequent visitors to Donegal – have been known to stop by, drawn to its charm and seclusion.
Guests can choose from thoughtfully curated courtyard rooms to spacious garden suites and even a private Lake Lodge, ideal for those craving an even more tucked-away oasis. Interiors combine modern comfort with classic charm, featuring cloud-like bedding, marble bathrooms with soaking tubs and rainfall showers, and thoughtful details like soft robes, slippers, and bedside charging ports. No matter the room, a sense of tranquility pervades, thanks to the castle's setting on Lough Eske, a 900-acre lake whose name translates to "Lake of the Fish" in Irish.
Lough Eske Castle – County Donegal
The outdoor private hot tubs at Lough Eske Castle in County Donegal, Ireland
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At Cedars Restaurant, floor-to-ceiling windows frame the castle gardens, setting the stage for a menu highlighting the best of Donegal and the Wild Atlantic Way, the rugged coastal road spanning Ireland's western shores. Seasonal produce takes center stage, with fresh, expertly prepared dishes in an elegant yet relaxed setting. Father Browne Bar – named after the famed Titanic photographer – offers a more intimate space to enjoy a cocktail or unwind by the crackling fire, surrounded by a fascinating collection of historic images. This is also where their daily Whiskey Tasting Experience takes place.
Behind the castle, CARA Organic Spa seamlessly balances old-world charm with state-of-the-art wellness facilities. The indoor heated pool offers a tranquil space for a refreshing swim, while the thermal suite features a sauna, steam room, and hydrotherapy pool. But the cherry on top is the outdoor private hot tubs, bookable for hour-long sessions, where guests can soak in the bubbling warmth with a glass of bubbly while admiring the castle grounds and the melodies of the local birds. Beyond the castle walls, complimentary guest bikes make exploring the countryside effortless, while the daily history tour brings Lough Eske's storied past to life.
Finn Lough – County Fermanagh
The Bubble Domes at Finn Lough in County Fermanagh are unlike anything on the island
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Finn Lough isn't the kind of place you rush through. Tucked away in the forests of County Fermanagh (fer-mah-nah) over the border in Northern Ireland, this secluded retreat encourages guests to slow down, unplug, and fully immerse themselves in nature. While there's no official screen ban, the setting makes it easy to swap scrolling for stargazing—though resisting the urge to take your phone out and snap a million photos of what Finn Lough has to offer might be the real challenge.
The Bubble Domes, the property's signature accommodations, are unlike anything on the island. Made from air-pressurized PVC, these transparent domes provide uninterrupted views of the forest and sky, allowing guests to sleep beneath a ceiling of stars. The Premium Domes take it up a notch, featuring a free-standing stone bathtub overlooking the woodland, perfect for unwinding after a day of exploring. For those who prefer solid walls, the River Cabins and Sky Suites offer modern, nature-inspired interiors with panoramic views of the surrounding landscape.
The food here is refreshingly simple yet well-executed. Mornings start with a breakfast hamper delivered straight to your door, filled with freshly baked goods and locally sourced ingredients. And for those who need their caffeine fix, a Nespresso machine is conveniently stocked in every room. Mid-mornings are best spent at Finn Lough House, where guests can linger over complimentary pastries and mimosas. Dinner at The Barn Restaurant is an intimate affair, with a focus on seasonal ingredients and unfussy, flavorful dishes. Afterward, the cinema room – complete with warm, freshly popped popcorn – offers a cozy way to wind down.
Finn Lough – County Fermanagh
Aerial views of a Bubble Dome at Finn Lough in County Fermanagh
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Besides the domes, the Elements Trail Spa is where Finn Lough truly stands out. Their two-hour immersive spa experience takes guests through a series of hot and cold therapies, including a sauna, herbal steam room, float pool, and relaxation pods tucked into the forest. For those seeking a more traditional experience, the Shoreline Spa offers massages and facials with locally made, cruelty-free products.
With its offerings, it’s easy to see why Finn Lough has earned a reputation as barefoot luxury with five-star service. Whether you're swimming in the nearby lake, kayaking across its glassy waters, starting your day with morning yoga, biking along forest trails, or simply watching the sunrise from bed, every moment here is designed for slowing down and savoring the experience.
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